I really like what this article has to say and not necessary due to the direct topic! In that time, our sex life has exploded!! The norm right now bounces between none or once a week sometimes and then 5+ times a week at other times. Even up until just recently I was still giving him oral just not letting him finish in my mouth, and when he said he wanted me to swallow again I told him I'd start swallowing again when he starts going down once in a while. If your wife still says no to oral sex, and no to couples counseling to address deeper issues as well, then it's your call here. I really can't fathom being with a girl that isn't okay doing something once a day. Jay Dee How many husbands actually like giving oral sex? It's my job to make him as happy as He makes me.
Of course he should return the favor, i think of it as role playing, like im a porn star. I love her very much but sometimes am disappointed that she does not have a good sexual imagination or sexual energy. Let him feel your breath. I enjoy making him happy. I like the taste, odor and feel of it.
And show some consideration, if she doesn't want it in her mouth don't pressure her. However, despite my best efforts, I have a voice that is best suited to the shower and nowhere else. Blowjobs to the point of orgasm, if there is sex 3-4 times a week I'd think. Threatening to leave him is wrong, imo. It's amusing the honesty of some early posts regarding how this act was done early in the relationship out of eagerness for the relationship to work or to please their partner.
I think him and I share the same feeling on oral sex, we totally enjoy doing it and not just for the sheer pleasure of the other. A man knows that his wife is actively engaged, not just lying back passively. Out of those husbands, 154 said that they, in fact, enjoy giving oral sex to their wives. I'm being fair by not giving at all. Girls wont want to do it if they are bumping their heads on beer guts either, so lose the spare tires guys. Thus, oral sex shouldn't be foreplay anymore.
Second, if you are worried about cleanliness, take a shower with your partner before sex which can be good clean fun on its own. If your jaw gets tired easily, time for more practice. When you have stuffy nose. I have the perfect wife but I had to teach her how to be perfect. Sometimes ice helps I am married to a girl like the ones who have responded to you. Maybe you don't but then there's reality. I talked to my wife about it over the weekend and we had Chinese food, a bottle of wine, and a evening of fun.
Yeah for as much as I love giving oral sex, it's on the complete opposite of the spectrum with how nasty the texture and taste of that stuff is. After chatting this out with my best friend — we agreed, the jokes were him asking for it more, in a funny manner so if I rejected him, he could say he was just kidding around. If she is more excited, her inhibitions will loosen, and she may find it easier and even pleasurable to go down on you analogy: eating grasshopper when you're drunk. If you can state this, she may understand your perspective better. And here's why: Oral sex is very intimate and pleasurable as you probably know from having received it — I hope! And then, ya know what? And they lived happily ever after…. My question to you is: What exactly turns you off about blow jobs? This paragraph hit me in the gut! So it's like a dude going down on a gal - there is no obligation on either side and all sexual acts should be appreciated and all parties involved are allowed to like and want what they like and want and should never be coerced into anything. Gag reflex, positioning, breathing it's a lot to handle sometimes.
It can go for 10 -15 mins I like doing it. Mine is one of them. At some point you have to figure out each others likes and wishes anew. I am in my late 40s, she in her early 40s. It is different when we take a romantic trip. I hope this helps - good luck! The worst thing you can do here is try to put your penis in her face when she is not excited at all.
You can feel vindicated in your position all the way to divorce court. My new girlfriend has been 2 times in 2 years. I love to hear how he breathes when I do it and how good I make him feel, and it really turns me on. So — I resolved to pray to love doing it. I would do just about anything for my wife if she requested it.