He doesn't want you to get to know him because he wants to keep things simple. Or is it more you? See if he tells you he doesn't want a relationship. Libra doesn't really see the harm in using people to look more popular because when he does it, he feels like it's a victimless crime. Your guy should be super willing to have you meet his friends and eventually his family once things get serious. You might not realize he's using you at first — since he can be very flirty and make it seem like he's just carving out as much time as he can just for you — but he's just using you because it's convenient and easy for him to get a little somethin' somethin'.
Be honest with yourself — you could totally do better! The only thing you can count on him for is a good time- and that's the only thing he's counting on you for as well. This is because he knows you have his best interest at heart. He keeps telling me even now that we will be together just after he puts up another article. If you cant go an hour without thinking about him, and everytime you are with him you smile and just wish time stopped so you could be with him forever. But if you're the only girl he's flirty with -- or the only girl he's more reserved with -- then it may be a sign that he's into you. See Step 1 to get started and to find out how your crush really feels today. Below, I've got the top signs he is using you for your money, for sex or even just for a place to crash.
The contents of his texts are just as important as how often he launches a conversation. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. And if he always offers a convenient excuse for why he has to go, or why he doesn't contact, or he is always so busy, then that's even worse. See what he does when you're apart. See if he never reveals personal information. I know that doing some exploring of your deeper feelings and asking yourself the hard questions in life can be uncomfortable for many.
Remember to stay away from guys who use you. Heck, he doesn't even talk about his friends or how much you'd like them. I had no idea he was married. Even if his agenda consists of getting caught up on his Netflix shows while staying in bed all day, he still feels like he's accomplishing something. And if he never leaves his phone unattended, not even for a second, then it may be because he doesn't want you to see all of the sweet texts from his other side pieces.
But then why did he wait until 1 a. If you can't get a hold of him when you want to see how he's doing for five days, but suddenly he's blowing up your phone at midnight on a Wednesday night, then he must be ready for some more convenient late night lovin'. He always needs money for one reason or the other and comes to you for the money. Sometimes, guys like having a mysterious relationship. How does he treat you in comparison to his other female friends and acquaintances? You invite him to a work event and he's busy. If he teases, flirts, plays around with, compliments, and gives a ton of attention to every girl that comes his way along with you, then yeah, he may not be singling you out. By keeping his distance, he's keeping things uncomplicated and avoiding any fights or hurt feelings that might come up if he ended up meaning more to you than just someone you've been with from time to time.
If he wants to date you, he will make that happen. I can show you all the signs, and you can pick and analyze through it but in your gut, you know the truth. If so, he might be pushing aside the emotional entanglement of a real relationship just so that he can keep open the using side without feelings of guilt. Watch this video if you want to know the answer to that question. In his mind, the world revolves around him. And, you often head strait for the bedroom the moment you or he walks in the door.
You've never been with him and not been intimate. You can chalk this up to him enjoying the experience of it all instead of just wanting sex. He is drawing away from you for some reason and may be doing so because he wants out because there is someone else on the side. Then out of the blue, I checked his Facebook page and it said that he had finally made his relationship with some other girl official — apparently some girl he was chatting up just like he was me. If he goes, yeah, he probably is. If he has a reasonable explanation, let it go, but keep an eye on things.
Does he throw a question back at you or make a joke when you ask something personal instead of giving a straight answer? That is mostly regarded as an essential part of oral hygiene. If your guy only calls you hours after the sun has set below the horizon and the stars come out, chances are, it's not because he's in the mood for stargazing. Give this guy the benefit of the doubt for now. Some men are users and some are not, and sometimes this has to do with who they are, and And chances are, we've probably all dealt with this situation at least once in our lives. See if he only contacts you sporadically. To watch the video, click on the image below. Yes, you heard that right — Taurus will be your friend for the day if it means he gets a free lunch out of the deal.